WHEN
Edwin C. Barnes climbed
down from the freight train in Orange, N. J., more than
thirty years ago, he may have resembled a tramp, but his
thoughts
were those of a king!
As he made
his way from the railroad tracks to Thomas A. Edison's
office, his mind was at work. He saw himself standing
in Edison presence. He heard himself asking Mr.
Edison for an opportunity to carry out the one
CONSUMING OBSESSION OF HIS LIFE, a BURNING DESIRE
to become the business associate of the great inventor.
Barnes'
desire was not a hope! It was not a
wish! It was a keen, pulsating DESIRE, which
transcended everything else. It was
DEFINITE.
The desire
was not new when he approached Edison. It had been Barnes'
dominating desire for a long time. In the
beginning, when the desire first appeared in his mind, it
may have been, probably was, only a wish, but it was no
mere wish when he appeared before Edison with it.
A few years
later, Edwin C. Barnes again stood before Edison, in the
same office where he first met the inventor. This time his
DESIRE had been translated into reality. He was in
business with Edison. The dominating DREAM OF
HIS LIFE had become a reality.
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Today, people who know Barnes
envy him because of the "break" life yielded him. They see
him in the days of his triumph, without taking the trouble
to investigate the cause of his success.
Barnes
succeeded because he chose a definite goal, placed all his
energy, all his will power, all his effort, everything back
of that goal. He did not become the partner of Edison the
day he arrived. He was content to start in the most menial
work, as long as it provided an opportunity to take even one
step toward his cherished goal.
Five years
passed before the chance he had been seeking made its
appearance. During all those years not one ray of hope, not
one promise of attainment of his DESIRE had been held
out to him. To everyone, except himself, he appeared only
another cog in the Edison business wheel, but in his own
mind, HE WAS THE PARTNER OF EDISON EVERY MINUTE OF THE
TIME, from the very day that he first went to work
there.
It is a
remarkable illustration of the power of a DEFINITE DESIRE.
Barnes won his goal, because he wanted to be a business
associate of Mr. Edison, more than he wanted anything else.
He created a plan by which to attain that purpose. But he
BURNED ALL BRIDGES BEHIND HIM. He stood by his
DESIRE until it became the dominating obsession of his
life and-finally, a fact.
When he went
to Orange, he did not say to himself, "I will try to induce
Edison to give me a job of some sort." He said, "I will see
Edison, and put him on notice that I have come to go into
business with him."
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He did not
say, "I will work there for a few months, and if I get no
encouragement, I will quit and get a job somewhere else." He
did say, "I will start anywhere. I will do anything Edison
tells me to do, but before I am through, I
will be his associate."
He did not
say, "I will keep my eyes open f or another opportunity, in
case I fail to get what I want in the Edison organization."
He said, "There is but ONE thing in this world that I am
determined to have, and that is a business association with
Thomas A. Edison. I will bum all bridges behind me, and
stake my ENTIRE FUTURE on my ability to get what I
want."
He
left himself no possible way of retreat. He
had to win or perish!
That is all
there is to the Barnes story of success!
A long while
ago, a great warrior faced a situation which made it
necessary for him to make a decision which insured his
success on the battlefield. He was about to send his
armies against a powerful foe, whose men outnumbered his
own. He loaded his soldiers into boats, sailed to the
enemy's country, unloaded soldiers and equipment, then gave
the order to burn the ships that had carried them.
Addressing his men before the first battle, he said, "You
see the boats going up in smoke. That means that we cannot
leave these shores alive unless we win! We now have no
choice-we win-or we perish! They won.
Every person
who wins in any undertaking must be willing to bum his ships
and cut all sources of retreat. Only by so doing can one
be sure of maintaining that state of mind known as a BURNING
DESIRE TO WIN, essential to success.
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The morning
after the great Chicago fire, a group of merchants stood on
State Street, looking at the smoking remains of what had
been their stores. They went into a conference to decide
if they would try to rebuild, or leave Chicago and start
over in a more promising section of the country. They
reached a decision all except one to leave Chicago.
The merchant
who decided to stay and rebuild pointed a finger at the
remains of his store, and said, "Gentlemen, on that very
spot I will build the world's greatest store, no matter how
many times it may burn down."
That was
more than fifty years ago. The store was built. It stands
there today, a towering monument to the power of that state
of mind known as a BURNING DESIRE. The easy thing
for Marshal Field to have done, would have been exactly what
his fellow merchants did. When the going was hard, and the
future looked dismal, they pulled up and went where the
going seemed easier.
Mark well
this difference between Marshall Field and the other
merchants, because it is the same difference which
distinguishes Edwin C. Barnes from thousands of other young
men who have worked in the Edison organization. It is t e
same difference which distinguishes practically all who
succeed from those who fail.
Every human
being who reaches the age of understanding of the purpose
of money, wishes for it. Wishing will not
bring riches. But desiring riches with a
state of mind that becomes an obsession, then planning
definite ways and means to acquire riches, and backing those
plans with persistence which does not
recognize failure, will bring riches.
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The method
by which DESIRE for riches can be transmuted into its
financial equivalent, consists of six definite, practical
steps, viz:
First. Fix in your mind
the exact amount of money you desire. It is not sufficient
merely to say "I want plenty of money." Be definite as to
the amount. (There is a psychological reason for
definiteness which will be described in a subsequent
chapter).
Second. Determine
exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you
desire. (There is no such reality as "something for
nothing.)
Third.
Establish a definite date when you intend to possess
the money you desire.
Fourth. Create a definite plan for carrying out your
desire, and begin at once, whether you are
ready or not, to put this plan into action.
Fifth. Write out a clear, concise statement of the
amount of money you intend to acquire, name the time limit
for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return
for the money, and describe clearly the plan through which
you intend to accumulate it.
Sixth.
Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once just
before retiring at night, and once after arising in the
morning. AS YOU
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READ-SEE AND FEEL AND
BELIEVE YOURSELF ALREADY IN POSSESSION OF THE MONEY.
It is
important that you follow the instructions described in
these six steps. It is especially important that you
observe, and follow the instructions in the sixth
paragraph. You may complain that it is impossible for you
to "see yourself in possession of money" before you actually
have it. Here is where a BURNING DESIRE will come to
your aid. If you truly DESIRE money so keenly that
your desire is an obsession, you will have no difficulty in
convincing yourself that you will acquire it. The object
is to want money, and to become so determined to have it
that you CONVINCE yourself you will have it.
Only those who become "money conscious" ever
accumulate great riches. "Money consciousness' means that
the mind has become so thoroughly saturated with the DESIRE
for money, that one can see one's self already in possession
of it.
To the
uninitiated, who has not been schooled in the working
principles of the human mind, these instructions may appear
impractical. It may be helpful, to all who fail to
recognize the soundness of the six steps, to know that the
information they convey, was received from Andrew Carnegie,
who began as an ordinary laborer in the steel mills, but
managed, despite his humble beginning, to make these
principles yield him a fortune of considerably more than one
hundred million dollars.
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It may be of further help to
know that the steps here recommended were carefully
scrutinized by the late Thomas A. Edison, who placed his
stamp of approval upon them as being, not only the steps
essential for the accumulation of money, but necessary for
the attainment of any definite goal.
The steps
call for no "hard labor." They call for no sacrifice. They
do not require one to become ridiculous, or credulous. To
apply them calls for no great amount of education. But the
successful application of these six steps does call for
sufficient imagination to enable one to see, and to
understand, that accumulation of money cannot be left to
chance, good fortune, and luck. One must realize that all
who have accumulated great fortunes, first did a certain
amount of dreaming, hoping, wishing, DESIRING, and
PLANNING before they acquired money.
You may as
well know right here, that you can never have riches in
great quantities, UNLESS you can work yourself into a
white heat of DESIRE for money, and actually
BELIEVE you will possess it.
You may as well know, also that
every great leader, from the dawn of civilization down to
the present, was a dreamer. Christianity is the greatest
potential power in the world today, because its founder was
an intense dreamer who had the vision and the imagination to
see realities in their mental and spiritual form before they
had been transmuted into physical form.
If you do
not see great riches in your imagination you will never see
them in your bank balance.
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Never, in
the history of America has there been so great an
opportunity for practical dreamers as now exists. The six
year economic collapse has reduced all men, substantially,
to the same level. A new race is about to be run. The
stakes represent huge fortunes which will be accumulated
within the next ten years. The rules of the race have
changed, because we now live in a CHANGED WORLD that
definitely favors the masses, those who had but little or no
opportunity to win under the conditions existing during the
depression, when fear paralyzed growth and development.
We who are
in this race for riches, should be encouraged to know that
this changed world in which we live is demanding new ideas,
new ways of doing things, new leaders, new inventions, new
methods of teaching, new methods of marketing, new books,
new literature, new features for the radio, new ideas for
moving pictures. Back of all this demand for new and
better things, there is one quality which one must possess
to win, and that is DEFINITENESS OF PURPOSE, the
knowledge of what one wants, and a burning DESIRE to
possess it.
The business
depression marked the death of one age, and the birth of
another. This changed world requires practical dreamers who
can, and u7ill put their dreams into action. The practical
dreamers have always been, and always will be the
patternmakers of civilization.
We who
desire to accumulate riches, should remember the real
leaders of the world always have been men who harnessed, and
put into practical use, the intangible, unseen forces of
unborn opportunity, and have converted those forces, (or
impulses of thought), into sky scrapers, cities, factories,
airplanes, automobiles, and every form of convenience that
makes life more pleasant.
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Tolerance,
and an open mind are practical necessities of the dreamer
of today. Those who are afraid of new ideas are doomed
before they start. Never has there been a time more
favorable to pioneers than the present. True, there is no
wild and woolly west to be conquered, as in the days of the
Covered Wagon; but there is a vast business, financial, and
industrial world to be remoulded and redirected along new
and better lines.
In planning
to acquire your share of the riches, let no one influence
you to scorn the dreamer. To win the big stakes in this
changed world, you must catch the spirit of the great
pioneers of the past, whose dreams have given to
civilization all that it has of value, the spirit which
serves as the life-blood of our own country your opportunity
and mine, to develop and market our talents.
Let us not
forget, Columbus dreamed of an Unknown world, staked his
life on the existence of such a world, and discovered it!
Copernicus,
the great astronomer, dreamed of a multiplicity of worlds,
and revealed them! No one denounced him as "impractical"
after he had triumphed. Instead, the world worshipped at
his shrine, thus proving once more that
"SUCCESS REQUIRES NO APOLOGIES, FAILURE
PERMITS NO ALIBIS.”
If the thing
you wish to do is right, and you believe in it, go ahead and
do it! Put your dream across, and never mind what "they"
say if you meet with temporary defeat, for "they," perhaps,
do not know that EVERY FAILURE
BRINGS WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT SUCCESS
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Henry Ford,
poor and uneducated, dreamed of a horseless carriage, went
to work with what tools he possessed, without waiting for
opportunity to favor him, and now evidence of his dream
belts the entire earth. He has put more wheels into
operation than any man who ever lived, because he was not
afraid to back his dreams.
Thomas
Edison dreamed of a lamp that could be operated by
electricity, began where he stood to put his dream into
action, and despite more than ten thousand failures, he
stood by that dream until he made it a physical reality.
Practical dreamers DO NOT QUIT!
Whelan
dreamed of a chain of cigar stores, transformed his dream
into action, and now the United Cigar Stores occupy the best
comers in America.
Lincoln
dreamed of freedom for the black slaves, put his dream into
action, and barely missed living to see a united North and
South translate his dream into reality.
The Wright
brothers dreamed of a machine that would fly through the
air. Now one may see evidence all over the world that they
dreamed soundly.
Marconi
dreamed of a system for harnessing the intangible forces of
the ether. Evidence that he did not dream in vain may be
found in every wireless and radio in the world. Moreover
Marconi's dream brought the humblest cabin, and the most
stately manor house side by side.
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It made the people of every
nation on earth back-door neighbors. It gave the President
of the United States a medium by which he may talk to all
the people of America at one time, and on short notice. It
may interest you to know that Marconi's "friends" had him
taken into custody, and examined in a psychopathic hospital,
when he announced he had discovered a principle through
which he could send messages through the air, without the
aid of wires, or other direct physical means of
communication. The dreamers of today fare better.
The world
has become accustomed to new discoveries. Nay, it has
shown a willingness to reward the dreamer who gives the
world a new idea.
"The
greatest achievement was, at first, and for a time, but a
dream."
"The oak
sleeps in the acorn. The bird waits in the egg, and in the
highest vision of the soul, a waking angel stirs.
DREAMS ARE THE SEEDLINGS OF REALITY.”
Awake
arise, and assert yourself, you dreamers of the world. Your
star is now in the ascendancy. The world depression brought
the opportunity you have been waiting for. It taught people
humility, tolerance, and open-mindedness.
The world is
filled with an abundance of OPPORTUNITY which the
dreamers of the past never knew.
A BURNING
DESIRE TO BE, AND TO DO is the starting point from which the
dreamer must take off. Dreams are not born of indifference,
laziness, or lack of ambition.
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The world no
longer scoffs at the dreamer, nor calls him impractical. If
you think it does, take a trip to Tennessee, and witness
what a dreamer President has done in the way of harnessing,
and using the great water power of America. A score of
years ago, such a dream would have Seemed like madness.
You have
been disappointed, you have undergone defeat during the
depression, you have felt the great heart within you crushed
until it bled. Take courage, for these experiences have
tempered the spiritual metal of which you are made-they are
assets of incomparable value.
Remember,
too, that all who succeed in life get off to a bad start,
and pass through many heartbreaking struggles before they
"arrive." The turning point in the lives of those who
succeed, usually comes at the moment of some crisis, through
which they are introduced to their "other selves."
John Bunyan
wrote the Pilgrim's Progress, which is among the finest of
all English literature, after he had been confined in prison
and sorely punished, because of his views on the subject of
religion.
0.
Henry discovered the
genius which slept within his brain, after he had met with
great misfortune, and was confined in a prison cell, in
Columbus, Ohio. Being FORCED, through misfortune, to
become acquainted with his "other self," and to use his
IMAGINATION, he discovered himself to be a great author
instead of a miserable criminal and outcast. Strange and
varied are the ways of life, and stranger still are the ways
of Infinite Intelligence, through which men are sometimes
forced to undergo all sorts of punishment before discovering
own brains, and their own capacity to create useful ideas
through imagination.
Their
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Edison, the
world's greatest inventor and scientist, was a "tramp"
telegraph operator, he failed innumerable times before he
was driven, finally, to the discovery of the genius which
slept within his brain.
Charles
Dickens began by pasting labels on blacking pots. The
tragedy of his first love penetrated the depths of his soul,
and converted him into one of the world's truly great
authors. That tragedy produced, first, David Copperfield,
then a succession of other works that made this a richer and
better world for all who read his books. Disappointment
over love affairs, generally has the effect of driving men
to drink, and women to ruin; and this, because most people
never learn the art of transmuting their strongest emotions
into dreams of a constructive nature.
Helen Keller
became deaf, dumb, and blind shortly after birth. Despite
her greatest misfortune, she has written her name indelibly
in the pages of the history of the great. Her entire life
has served as evidence that no one ever is defeated
until defeat has been accepted as a
reality.
Robert
Burns was an illiterate country lad, he was cursed by
poverty, and grew up to be a drunkard in the bargain. The
world was made better for his having lived, because he
clothed beautiful thoughts in poetry, and thereby plucked a
thorn and planted a rose in its place.
Booker T.
Washington was born in slavery, handicapped by race and
color. Because he was tolerant, had an open mind at all
times, on all subjects, and was a DREAMER, he left his
impress for good on an entire race.
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Beethoven
was deaf, Milton was blind, but their names will last as
long as time endures, because they dreamed and translated
their dreams into organized thought.
Before
passing to the next chapter, kindle anew in your mind the
fire of hope, faith, courage, and tolerance. If you have
these states of mind, and a working knowledge of the
principles described, all else that you need will come to
you, when you are READY for it. Let Emerson state the
thought in these words, "Every proverb, every book, every
byword that belongs to thee for aid and comfort shall surely
come home through open or winding passages. Every friend
whom not thy fantastic will, but the great and tender soul
in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his embrace."
There is a
difference between WISHING for a thing and being
READY to receive it. No one is ready for a thing, until he
believes he can acquire it. The state of mind must be
BELIEF, not mere hope or wish. Open-mindedness is essential
for belief. Closed minds do not inspire faith, courage,
and belief.
Remember, no
more effort is required to aim high in life, to demand
abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery
and poverty. A great poet has correctly stated this
universal truth through these lines:
"I
bargained with Life for a penny,
And Life
would pay no more,
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However I
begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store.
"For Life is a just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have Set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
"I
worked for a menial's hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have willingly paid."
DESIRE
OU'RWITS MOTHER NATURE
As a
fitting climax to this chapter, I wish to introduce one of
the most unusual persons I have -ever known. I first saw
him twenty four years ago, a few minutes after he was born.
He came into the world without any physical sign of ears,
and the doctor admitted, when pressed for an opinion, that
the child might be deaf, and mute for life.
I challenged
the doctor's opinion. I had the right to do so, I was the
child's father. I, too, reached a decision, and rendered an
opinion, but I expressed the opinion silently, in the
secrecy of my own heart. I decided that my son would hear
and speak. Nature could send me a child without ears, but
Nature could not induce me to accept the
reality of the affliction.
in my own
mind I knew that my son would hear and speak. How? I was
sure there must be a way, and I knew I would find it. I
thought of the words of the immortal Emerson, "The whole
course of things goes to teach us faith. We need only obey.
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There is
guidance for each of us, and by lowly listening, we shall
hear the right word."
The right
word? DESIRE! More than anything else, I DESIRED
that my son should not be a deaf mute. From that desire I
never receded, not for a second.
Many years
previously, I had written, "Our only limitations are those
we set up in our own minds." For the first time, I wondered
if that statement were true. Lying on the bed in front of
me was a newly born child, without the natural equipment of
hearing. Even though he might hear and speak, he was
obviously disfigured for life. Surely, this was a
limitation which that child had not set up in his own mind.
What could I
do about it? Somehow I would find a way to transplant into
that child's mind my own BURNING DESIRE for ways and
means of conveying sound to his brain without the aid of
ears.
As soon as
the child was old enough to cooperate, I would fill his mind
so completely with a BURNING DESIRE to hear, that
Nature would, by methods of her own, translate it into
physical reality.
All this
thinking took place in my own mind, but I spoke of it to no
one. Every day I renewed the pledge I had made to myself,
not to accept a deaf mute for a son.
As he grew
older, and began to take notice of things around him, we
observed that he had a slight degree of hearing. When he
reached the age when children usually begin talking, he made
no attempt to speak, but we could tell by his actions that
he could hear certain sounds slightly. That was all I
wanted to know! I was convinced
that if he could hear, even slightly, he might develop still
greater hearing capacity. Then something happened which
gave me hope. It came from an entirely unexpected source.
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We bought a
victrola. When the child heard the music for the first
time, he went into ecstasies, and promptly appropriated the
machine. He soon showed a preference for certain records,
among them, It's a Long Way to Tipperary." On one occasion,
he played that piece over and over, for almost two hours,
standing in front of the victrola, with his
teeth clamped on the edge of the case.
The significance of this self-formed habit of his did
not become clear to us until years afterward, for we had
never heard of the principle of "bone conduction" of sound
at that time.
Shortly
after he appropriated the victrola, I discovered that he
could hear me quite clearly when I spoke with my lips
touching his mastoid bone, or at the base of the brain.
These discoveries placed in my possession the necessary
media by which I began to translate into reality my
Burning Desire to help my son develop hearing and
speech. By that time he was making stabs at speaking
certain words. The outlook was far from encouraging, but
DESIRE BACKED BY FAITH knows no such word as impossible.
Having
determined that he could hear the sound of my voice plainly,
I began immediately to transfer to his mind the desire to
hear and speak. I soon discovered that the child enjoyed
bedtime stories, so I went to work, creating stories
designed to develop in him self-reliance, imagination, and a
keen desire to hear and to be
normal.
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There was
one story in particular, which I emphasized by giving it
some new and dramatic coloring each time it was told. It
was designed to plant in his mind the thought that his
affliction was not a liability, but an asset of great
value. Despite the fact that all the philosophy I had
examined clearly indicated that EVERY ADVERSITY BRINGS
WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT ADVANTAGE, I must
confess that I had not the slightest idea how this
affliction could ever become an asset. However, I continued
my practice of wrapping that philosophy in bedtime stories,
hoping the time would come when he would find some plan by
which his handicap could be made to serve some useful
purpose.
Reason told
me plainly, that there was no adequate compensation for the
lack of ears and natural hearing equipment. DESIRE
backed by FAITH, pushed reason aside, and inspired me to
carry on.
As I analyze
the experience in retrospect, I can see now, that my son's
faith in me had much to do with the astounding
results. He did not question anything I told him. I sold
him the idea that he had a distinct advantage over his older
brother, and that this advantage would reflect itself in
many ways. For example, the teachers in school would
observe that he had no ears, and, because of this, they
would show him special attention and treat him with
extraordinary kindness.
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They always
did. His mother saw to that, by visiting the teachers and
arranging with them to give the child the extra attention
necessary. I sold him the idea, too, that when he became
old enough to sell newspapers, (his older brother had
already become a newspaper merchant), he would have a big
advantage over his brother, for the reason that people would
pay him extra money for his wares, because they could see
that he was a bright, industrious boy, despite the fact he
had no ears.
We could
notice that, gradually, the child's hearing was improving.
Moreover, he had not the slightest tendency to be
self-conscious, because of his affliction. When he was
about seven, he showed the first evidence that our method of
servicing his mind was bearing fruit. For several months he
begged for the privilege of selling newspapers, but his
mother would not give her consent. She was afraid that his
deafness made it unsafe for him to go on the street alone.
Finally, he
took matters in his own hands. One afternoon, when he was
left at home with the servants, he climbed through the
kitchen window, shinnied to the ground, and set out on his
own. He borrowed six cents in capital from the
neighborhood shoemaker, invested it in papers, sold out,
reinvested, and kept repeating until late in the evening.
After balancing his accounts, and paying back the six cents
he had borrowed from his banker, he had a net profit of
forty-two cents. When we got home that night, we found him
in bed asleep, with the money tightly clenched in his hand.
His mother opened his hand,
removed the coins, and cried. Of all things! Crying over
her son's first victory seemed so inappropriate. My
reaction was the reverse. I laughed heartily, for I knew
that my endeavor to plant in the child's mind an attitude of
faith in himself had been successful.
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His mother
saw, in his first business venture, a little deaf boy who
had gone out in the streets and risked his life to earn
money. I saw a brave, ambitious, self-reliant little
businessman whose stock in himself had been increased a
hundred percent, because he had gone into business on his
own initiative, and had won. The transaction pleased me,
because I knew that he had given evidence of a trait of
resourcefulness that would go with him all through life.
Later events proved this to be true. When his older brother
wanted something, he would lie down on the floor, kick his
feet in the air, cry for it-and get it. When the "little
deaf boy" wanted something, he would plan a way to earn the
money, then buy it for him self. He still follows that
plan!
Truly, my
own son has taught me that handicaps can be converted into
stepping stones on which one may climb toward some worthy
goal, unless they are accepted as obstacles, and used as
alibis.
The little
deaf boy went through the grades, high school, and college
without being able to hear his teachers, excepting when they
shouted loudly, at close range. He did not go to a school
for the deaf.
WE WOULD
NOT PERMIT HIM TO LEARN THE SIGN LANGUAGE.
We were determined that he should live a normal life, and
associate with normal children, and we stood by that
decision, although it cost us many heated debates with
school officials.
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While he
was in high school, he tried an electrical hearing aid, but
it was of no value to him; due, we believed, to a condition
that was disclosed when the child was six, by Dr. J. Gordon
Wilson, of Chicago, when he operated on one side of the
boy's head, and discovered that there was no sign of natural
hearing equipment.
During his
last week in college, (eighteen years after the operation),
something happened which marked the most important
turning-point of his life. Through what seemed to be mere
chance, he came into possession of another electrical
hearing device, which was sent to him on trial. He was
slow about testing it, due to his disappointment with a
similar device. Finally he picked the instrument up, and
more or less carelessly, placed it on his head, hooked up
the battery, and lo! as if by a stroke of magic, his
lifelong DESIRE FOR NORMAL HEARING BECAME A REALITY!
For the first time in his life he heard practically as well
as any person with normal hearing. "God moves in
mysterious ways, His wonders to perform."
Overjoyed
because of the Changed World, which had been brought to him
through his hearing device, he rushed to the telephone,
called his mother, and heard her voice perfectly. The next
day he plainly heard the voices of his professors in class,
for the first time in his life! Previously he could hear
them only when they shouted, at short range. He heard the
radio. He heard the talking pictures. For the first time
in his life, he could converse freely with other people,
without the necessity of their having to speak loudly.
Truly, he had come into possession of a Changed World.
We had refused to accept Nature's error, and, by PERSISTENT
DESIRE, we had induced Nature to correct that error, through
the only practical means available.
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DESIRE
had commenced to pay dividends, but the victory was not yet
complete. The boy still had to find a definite an practical
way to convert his handicap into an
equivalent asset.
Hardly
realizing the significance of what had already been
accomplished, but intoxicated with the joy of his newly
discovered world of sound, he wrote a letter to the
manufacturer of the hearing aid, enthusiastically describing
his experience. Something in his letter something perhaps
which was not written on the lines, but back of them caused
the company to invite him to New York. When he arrived, he
was escorted through the factory, and while talking with the
Chief Engineer, telling him about his changed world, a
hunch, an idea, or an inspiration all it what you
wish-flashed into his mind. It was this impulse of
thought which converted his affliction into an
asset, destined to pay dividends in both money and happiness
to thousands for all time to come.
The sum and
substance of that impulse of thought was this: It occurred
to him that he might be of help to the millions of deafened
people who go through life without the benefit of hearing
devices, if he could find a way to tell them the story of
his Changed World. Then and there, he reached a decision
to devote the remainder of his life to rendering useful
service to the hard of hearing.
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For an
entire month, he carried on an intensive
research, during which he analyzed the entire marketing
system of the manufacturer of the hearing device, and
created ways and means of communicating with the hard of
hearing all over the world for the purpose of sharing with
them his newly discovered "Changed World." When this was
done, he put in writing a two-year plan, based upon his
findings. When he presented the plan to the company, he
was instantly given a position, for the purpose of carrying
out his ambition.
Little did
he dream, when he went to work, that he was destined to
bring hope and practical relief to thousands of deafened
people who, without his help, would have been doomed forever
to deaf mutism.
Shortly
after he became associated with the manufacturer of his
hearing aid, he invited me to attend a class conducted by
his company, for the purpose of teaching deaf mutes to hear,
and to speak. I had never heard of such a form of
education, therefore I visited the class, skeptical but
hopeful that my time would not be entirely wasted. Here I
saw a demonstration which gave me a greatly enlarged vision
of what I had done to arouse and keep alive in my son's mind
the DESIRE for normal hearing. I saw deaf mutes
actually being taught to hear and to speak, through
application of the self-same principle I had used, more than
twenty years previously, in saving my son from deaf mutism.
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Thus,
through some strange turn of the Wheel of Fate, my son,
Blair, and I have been destined to aid in correcting deaf
mutism for those as yet unborn, because we are the only
living human beings, as far as I know, who have established
definitely the fact that deaf mutism can be corrected to the
extent of restoring to normal life those who suffer with
this affliction. It has been done for one; it will be done
for o
WHEN
Edwin
C. Barnes climbed down from the freight train in Orange, N.
J., more than thirty years ago, he may have resembled a
tramp, but his
thoughts
were those of a king!
As he made
his way from the railroad tracks to Thomas A. Edison's
office, his mind was at work. He saw himself standing
in Edison presence. He heard himself asking Mr.
Edison for an opportunity to carry out the one
CONSUMING OBSESSION OF HIS LIFE, a BURNING DESIRE
to become the business associate of the great inventor.
Barnes'
desire was not a hope! It was not a
wish! It was a keen, pulsating DESIRE, which
transcended everything else. It was
DEFINITE.
The desire
was not new when he approached Edison. It had been Barnes'
dominating desire for a long time. In the
beginning, when the desire first appeared in his mind, it
may have been, probably was, only a wish, but it was no
mere wish when he appeared before Edison with it.
A few years
later, Edwin C. Barnes again stood before Edison, in the
same office where he first met the inventor. This time his
DESIRE had been translated into reality. He was in
business with Edison. The dominating DREAM OF
HIS LIFE had become a reality.
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Today, people who know Barnes
envy him because of the "break" life yielded him. They see
him in the days of his triumph, without taking the trouble
to investigate the cause of his success.
Barnes
succeeded because he chose a definite goal, placed all his
energy, all his will power, all his effort, everything back
of that goal. He did not become the partner of Edison the
day he arrived. He was content to start in the most menial
work, as long as it provided an opportunity to take even one
step toward his cherished goal.
Five years
passed before the chance he had been seeking made its
appearance. During all those years not one ray of hope, not
one promise of attainment of his DESIRE had been held
out to him. To everyone, except himself, he appeared only
another cog in the Edison business wheel, but in his own
mind, HE WAS THE PARTNER OF EDISON EVERY MINUTE OF THE
TIME, from the very day that he first went to work
there.
It is a
remarkable illustration of the power of a DEFINITE DESIRE.
Barnes won his goal, because he wanted to be a business
associate of Mr. Edison, more than he wanted anything else.
He created a plan by which to attain that purpose. But he
BURNED ALL BRIDGES BEHIND HIM. He stood by his
DESIRE until it became the dominating obsession of his
life and-finally, a fact.
When he went
to Orange, he did not say to himself, "I will try to induce
Edison to give me a job of some sort." He said, "I will see
Edison, and put him on notice that I have come to go into
business with him."
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He did not
say, "I will work there for a few months, and if I get no
encouragement, I will quit and get a job somewhere else." He
did say, "I will start anywhere. I will do anything Edison
tells me to do, but before I am through, I
will be his associate."
He did not
say, "I will keep my eyes open f or another opportunity, in
case I fail to get what I want in the Edison organization."
He said, "There is but ONE thing in this world that I am
determined to have, and that is a business association with
Thomas A. Edison. I will bum all bridges behind me, and
stake my ENTIRE FUTURE on my ability to get what I
want."
He
left himself no possible way of retreat. He
had to win or perish!
That is all
there is to the Barnes story of success!
A long while
ago, a great warrior faced a situation which made it
necessary for him to make a decision which insured his
success on the battlefield. He was about to send his
armies against a powerful foe, whose men outnumbered his
own. He loaded his soldiers into boats, sailed to the
enemy's country, unloaded soldiers and equipment, then gave
the order to burn the ships that had carried them.
Addressing his men before the first battle, he said, "You
see the boats going up in smoke. That means that we cannot
leave these shores alive unless we win! We now have no
choice-we win-or we perish! They won.
Every person
who wins in any undertaking must be willing to bum his ships
and cut all sources of retreat. Only by so doing can one
be sure of maintaining that state of mind known as a BURNING
DESIRE TO WIN, essential to success.
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The morning
after the great Chicago fire, a group of merchants stood on
State Street, looking at the smoking remains of what had
been their stores. They went into a conference to decide
if they would try to rebuild, or leave Chicago and start
over in a more promising section of the country. They
reached a decision all except one to leave Chicago.
The merchant
who decided to stay and rebuild pointed a finger at the
remains of his store, and said, "Gentlemen, on that very
spot I will build the world's greatest store, no matter how
many times it may burn down."
That was
more than fifty years ago. The store was built. It stands
there today, a towering monument to the power of that state
of mind known as a BURNING DESIRE. The easy thing
for Marshal Field to have done, would have been exactly what
his fellow merchants did. When the going was hard, and the
future looked dismal, they pulled up and went where the
going seemed easier.
Mark well
this difference between Marshall Field and the other
merchants, because it is the same difference which
distinguishes Edwin C. Barnes from thousands of other young
men who have worked in the Edison organization. It is t e
same difference which distinguishes practically all who
succeed from those who fail.
Every human
being who reaches the age of understanding of the purpose
of money, wishes for it. Wishing will not
bring riches. But desiring riches with a
state of mind that becomes an obsession, then planning
definite ways and means to acquire riches, and backing those
plans with persistence which does not
recognize failure, will bring riches.
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The method
by which DESIRE for riches can be transmuted into its
financial equivalent, consists of six definite, practical
steps, viz:
First. Fix in your mind
the exact amount of money you desire. It is not sufficient
merely to say "I want plenty of money." Be definite as to
the amount. (There is a psychological reason for
definiteness which will be described in a subsequent
chapter).
Second. Determine
exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you
desire. (There is no such reality as "something for
nothing.)
Third.
Establish a definite date when you intend to possess
the money you desire.
Fourth. Create a definite plan for carrying out your
desire, and begin at once, whether you are
ready or not, to put this plan into action.
Fifth. Write out a clear, concise statement of the
amount of money you intend to acquire, name the time limit
for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return
for the money, and describe clearly the plan through which
you intend to accumulate it.
Sixth.
Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once just
before retiring at night, and once after arising in the
morning. AS YOU
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READ-SEE AND FEEL AND
BELIEVE YOURSELF ALREADY
IN POSSESSION OF THE MONEY.
It is
important that you follow the instructions described in
these six steps. It is especially important that you
observe, and follow the instructions in the sixth
paragraph. You may complain that it is impossible for you
to "see yourself in possession of money" before you actually
have it. Here is where a BURNING DESIRE will come to
your aid. If you truly DESIRE money so keenly that
your desire is an obsession, you will have no difficulty in
convincing yourself that you will acquire it. The object
is to want money, and to become so determined to have it
that you CONVINCE yourself you will have it.
Only those who become "money conscious" ever
accumulate great riches. "Money consciousness' means that
the mind has become so thoroughly saturated with the DESIRE
for money, that one can see one's self already in possession
of it.
To the
uninitiated, who has not been schooled in the working
principles of the human mind, these instructions may appear
impractical. It may be helpful, to all who fail to
recognize the soundness of the six steps, to know that the
information they convey, was received from Andrew Carnegie,
who began as an ordinary laborer in the steel mills, but
managed, despite his humble beginning, to make these
principles yield him a fortune of considerably more than one
hundred million dollars.
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It may be of further help to
know that the steps here recommended were carefully
scrutinized by the late Thomas A. Edison, who placed his
stamp of approval upon them as being, not only the steps
essential for the accumulation of money, but necessary for
the attainment of any definite goal.
The steps
call for no "hard labor." They call for no sacrifice. They
do not require one to become ridiculous, or credulous. To
apply them calls for no great amount of education. But the
successful application of these six steps does call for
sufficient imagination to enable one to see, and to
understand, that accumulation of money cannot be left to
chance, good fortune, and luck. One must realize that all
who have accumulated great fortunes, first did a certain
amount of dreaming, hoping, wishing, DESIRING, and
PLANNING before they acquired money.
You may as
well know right here, that you can never have riches in
great quantities, UNLESS you can work yourself into a
white heat of DESIRE for money, and actually
BELIEVE you will possess it.
You may as well know, also that
every great leader, from the dawn of civilization down to
the present, was a dreamer. Christianity is the greatest
potential power in the world today, because its founder was
an intense dreamer who had the vision and the imagination to
see realities in their mental and spiritual form before they
had been transmuted into physical form.
If you do
not see great riches in your imagination you will never see
them in your bank balance.
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Never, in
the history of America has there been so great an
opportunity for practical dreamers as now exists. The six
year economic collapse has reduced all men, substantially,
to the same level. A new race is about to be run. The
stakes represent huge fortunes which will be accumulated
within the next ten years. The rules of the race have
changed, because we now live in a CHANGED WORLD that
definitely favors the masses, those who had but little or no
opportunity to win under the conditions existing during the
depression, when fear paralyzed growth and development.
We who are
in this race for riches, should be encouraged to know that
this changed world in which we live is demanding new ideas,
new ways of doing things, new leaders, new inventions, new
methods of teaching, new methods of marketing, new books,
new literature, new features for the radio, new ideas for
moving pictures. Back of all this demand for new and
better things, there is one quality which one must possess
to win, and that is DEFINITENESS OF PURPOSE, the
knowledge of what one wants, and a burning DESIRE to
possess it.
The business
depression marked the death of one age, and the birth of
another. This changed world requires practical dreamers who
can, and u7ill put their dreams into action. The practical
dreamers have always been, and always will be the
patternmakers of civilization.
We who
desire to accumulate riches, should remember the real
leaders of the world always have been men who harnessed, and
put into practical use, the intangible, unseen forces of
unborn opportunity, and have converted those forces, (or
impulses of thought), into sky scrapers, cities, factories,
airplanes, automobiles, and every form of convenience that
makes life more pleasant.
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Tolerance,
and an open mind are practical necessities of the dreamer
of today. Those who are afraid of new ideas are doomed
before they start. Never has there been a time more
favorable to pioneers than the present. True, there is no
wild and woolly west to be conquered, as in the days of the
Covered Wagon; but there is a vast business, financial, and
industrial world to be remoulded and redirected along new
and better lines.
In planning
to acquire your share of the riches, let no one influence
you to scorn the dreamer. To win the big stakes in this
changed world, you must catch the spirit of the great
pioneers of the past, whose dreams have given to
civilization all that it has of value, the spirit which
serves as the life-blood of our own country your opportunity
and mine, to develop and market our talents.
Let us not
forget, Columbus dreamed of an Unknown world, staked his
life on the existence of such a world, and discovered it!
Copernicus,
the great astronomer, dreamed of a multiplicity of worlds,
and revealed them! No one denounced him as "impractical"
after he had triumphed. Instead, the world worshipped at
his shrine, thus proving once more that
"SUCCESS REQUIRES NO APOLOGIES, FAILURE
PERMITS NO ALIBIS.”
If the thing
you wish to do is right, and you believe in it, go ahead and
do it! Put your dream across, and never mind what "they"
say if you meet with temporary defeat, for "they," perhaps,
do not know that EVERY FAILURE
BRINGS WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT SUCCESS
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Henry Ford,
poor and uneducated, dreamed of a horseless carriage, went
to work with what tools he possessed, without waiting for
opportunity to favor him, and now evidence of his dream
belts the entire earth. He has put more wheels into
operation than any man who ever lived, because he was not
afraid to back his dreams.
Thomas
Edison dreamed of a lamp that could be operated by
electricity, began where he stood to put his dream into
action, and despite more than ten thousand failures, he
stood by that dream until he made it a physical reality.
Practical dreamers DO NOT QUIT!
Whelan
dreamed of a chain of cigar stores, transformed his dream
into action, and now the United Cigar Stores occupy the best
comers in America.
Lincoln
dreamed of freedom for the black slaves, put his dream into
action, and barely missed living to see a united North and
South translate his dream into reality.
The Wright
brothers dreamed of a machine that would fly through the
air. Now one may see evidence all over the world that they
dreamed soundly.
Marconi
dreamed of a system for harnessing the intangible forces of
the ether. Evidence that he did not dream in vain may be
found in every wireless and radio in the world. Moreover
Marconi's dream brought the humblest cabin, and the most
stately manor house side by side.
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It made the people of every
nation on earth back-door neighbors. It gave the President
of the United States a medium by which he may talk to all
the people of America at one time, and on short notice. It
may interest you to know that Marconi's "friends" had him
taken into custody, and examined in a psychopathic hospital,
when he announced he had discovered a principle through
which he could send messages through the air, without the
aid of wires, or other direct physical means of
communication. The dreamers of today fare better.
The world
has become accustomed to new discoveries. Nay, it has
shown a willingness to reward the dreamer who gives the
world a new idea.
"The
greatest achievement was, at first, and for a time, but a
dream."
"The oak
sleeps in the acorn. The bird waits in the egg, and in the
highest vision of the soul, a waking angel stirs.
DREAMS ARE THE SEEDLINGS OF REALITY.”
Awake
arise, and assert yourself, you dreamers of the world. Your
star is now in the ascendancy. The world depression brought
the opportunity you have been waiting for. It taught people
humility, tolerance, and open-mindedness.
The world is
filled with an abundance of OPPORTUNITY which the
dreamers of the past never knew.
A BURNING
DESIRE TO BE, AND TO DO is the starting point from which the
dreamer must take off. Dreams are not born of indifference,
laziness, or lack of ambition.
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The world no
longer scoffs at the dreamer, nor calls him impractical. If
you think it does, take a trip to Tennessee, and witness
what a dreamer President has done in the way of harnessing,
and using the great water power of America. A score of
years ago, such a dream would have Seemed like madness.
You have
been disappointed, you have undergone defeat during the
depression, you have felt the great heart within you crushed
until it bled. Take courage, for these experiences have
tempered the spiritual metal of which you are made-they are
assets of incomparable value.
Remember,
too, that all who succeed in life get off to a bad start,
and pass through many heartbreaking struggles before they
"arrive." The turning point in the lives of those who
succeed, usually comes at the moment of some crisis, through
which they are introduced to their "other selves."
John Bunyan
wrote the Pilgrim's Progress, which is among the finest of
all English literature, after he had been confined in prison
and sorely punished, because of his views on the subject of
religion.
Henry
discovered the genius which slept within his brain, after he
had met with great misfortune, and was confined in a prison
cell, in Columbus, Ohio. Being FORCED, through misfortune,
to become acquainted with his "other self," and to use his
IMAGINATION, he discovered himself to be a great
author instead of a miserable criminal and outcast.
Strange and varied are the ways of life, and stranger still
are the ways of Infinite Intelligence, through which men are
sometimes forced to undergo all sorts of punishment before
discovering own brains, and their own capacity to create
useful ideas through imagination.
Their
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Edison, the
world's greatest inventor and scientist, was a "tramp"
telegraph operator, he failed innumerable times before he
was driven, finally, to the discovery of the genius which
slept within his brain.
Charles
Dickens began by pasting labels on blacking pots. The
tragedy of his first love penetrated the depths of his soul,
and converted him into one of the world's truly great
authors. That tragedy produced, first, David Copperfield,
then a succession of other works that made this a richer and
better world for all who read his books. Disappointment
over love affairs, generally has the effect of driving men
to drink, and women to ruin; and this, because most people
never learn the art of transmuting their strongest emotions
into dreams of a constructive nature.
Helen Keller
became deaf, dumb, and blind shortly after birth. Despite
her greatest misfortune, she has written her name indelibly
in the pages of the history of the great. Her entire life
has served as evidence that no one ever is defeated
until defeat has been accepted as a
reality.
Robert
Burns was an illiterate country lad, he was cursed by
poverty, and grew up to be a drunkard in the bargain. The
world was made better for his having lived, because he
clothed beautiful thoughts in poetry, and thereby plucked a
thorn and planted a rose in its place.
Booker T.
Washington was born in slavery, handicapped by race and
color. Because he was tolerant, had an open mind at all
times, on all subjects, and was a DREAMER, he left his
impress for good on an entire race.
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Beethoven
was deaf, Milton was blind, but their names will last as
long as time endures, because they dreamed and translated
their dreams into organized thought.
Before
passing to the next chapter, kindle anew in your mind the
fire of hope, faith, courage, and tolerance. If you have
these states of mind, and a working knowledge of the
principles described, all else that you need will come to
you, when you are READY for it. Let Emerson state the
thought in these words, "Every proverb, every book, every
byword that belongs to thee for aid and comfort shall surely
come home through open or winding passages. Every friend
whom not thy fantastic will, but the great and tender soul
in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his embrace."
There is a
difference between WISHING for a thing and being
READY to receive it. No one is ready for a thing, until he
believes he can acquire it. The state of mind must be
BELIEF, not mere hope or wish. Open-mindedness is essential
for belief. Closed minds do not inspire faith, courage,
and belief.
Remember, no
more effort is required to aim high in life, to demand
abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery
and poverty. A great poet has correctly stated this
universal truth through these lines:
"I bargained with Life for a
penny,
And Life would pay no more,
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However I
begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store.
"For Life is a just
employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have Set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
"I worked for a menial's hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would
have willingly paid."
DESIRE
OU'RWITS
MOTHER NATURE
As a
fitting climax to this chapter, I wish to introduce one of
the most unusual persons I have -ever known. I first saw
him twenty four years ago, a few minutes after he was born.
He came into the world without any physical sign of ears,
and the doctor admitted, when pressed for an opinion, that
the child might be deaf, and mute for life.
I challenged
the doctor's opinion. I had the right to do so, I was the
child's father. I, too, reached a decision, and rendered an
opinion, but I expressed the opinion silently, in the
secrecy of my own heart. I decided that my son would hear
and speak. Nature could send me a child without ears, but
Nature could not induce me to accept the
reality of the affliction.
in my own
mind I knew that my son would hear and speak. How? I was
sure there must be a way, and I knew I would find it. I
thought of the words of the immortal Emerson, "The whole
course of things goes to teach us faith. We need only obey.
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There is
guidance for each of us, and by lowly listening, we shall
hear the right word."
The right
word? DESIRE! More than anything else, I DESIRED
that my son should not be a deaf mute. From that desire I
never receded, not for a second.
Many years
previously, I had written, "Our only limitations are those
we set up in our own minds." For the first time, I wondered
if that statement were true. Lying on the bed in front of
me was a newly born child, without the natural equipment of
hearing. Even though he might hear and speak, he was
obviously disfigured for life. Surely, this was a
limitation which that child had not set up in his own mind.
What could I
do about it? Somehow I would find a way to transplant into
that child's mind my own BURNING DESIRE for ways and
means of conveying sound to his brain without the aid of
ears.
As soon as
the child was old enough to cooperate, I would fill his mind
so completely with a BURNING DESIRE to hear, that
Nature would, by methods of her own, translate it into
physical reality.
All this
thinking took place in my own mind, but I spoke of it to no
one. Every day I renewed the pledge I had made to myself,
not to accept a deaf mute for a son.
As he grew
older, and began to take notice of things around him, we
observed that he had a slight degree of hearing. When he
reached the age when children usually begin talking, he made
no attempt to speak, but we could tell by his actions that
he could hear certain sounds slightly. That was all I
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wanted to know! I was convinced
that if he could hear, even slightly, he might develop still
greater hearing capacity. Then something happened which
gave me hope. It came from an entirely unexpected source.
We bought a
victrola. When the child heard the music for the first
time, he went into ecstasies, and promptly appropriated the
machine. He soon showed a preference for certain records,
among them, It's a Long Way to Tipperary." On one occasion,
he played that piece over and over, for almost two hours,
standing in front of the victrola, with his
teeth clamped on the edge of the case.
The significance of this self-formed habit of his did
not become clear to us until years afterward, for we had
never heard of the principle of "bone conduction" of sound
at that time.
Shortly
after he appropriated the victrola, I discovered that he
could hear me quite clearly when I spoke with my lips
touching his mastoid bone, or at the base of the brain.
These discoveries placed in my possession the necessary
media by which I began to translate into reality my
Burning Desire to help my son develop hearing and
speech. By that time he was making stabs at speaking
certain words. The outlook was far from encouraging, but
DESIRE BACKED BY FAITH knows no such word as impossible.
Having
determined that he could hear the sound of my voice plainly,
I began immediately to transfer to his mind the desire to
hear and speak. I soon discovered that the child enjoyed
bedtime stories, so I went to work, creating stories
designed to develop in him self-reliance, imagination, and a
keen desire to hear and to be
normal.
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There was
one story in particular, which I emphasized by giving it
some new and dramatic coloring each time it was told. It
was designed to plant in his mind the thought that his
affliction was not a liability, but an asset of great
value. Despite the fact that all the philosophy I had
examined clearly indicated that EVERY ADVERSITY BRINGS
WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT ADVANTAGE, I must
confess that I had not the slightest idea how this
affliction could ever become an asset. However, I continued
my practice of wrapping that philosophy in bedtime stories,
hoping the time would come when he would find some plan by
which his handicap could be made to serve some useful
purpose.
Reason told
me plainly, that there was no adequate compensation for the
lack of ears and natural hearing equipment. DESIRE
backed by FAITH, pushed reason aside, and inspired me to
carry on.
As I analyze
the experience in retrospect, I can see now, that my son's
faith in me had much to do with the astounding
results. He did not question anything I told him. I sold
him the idea that he had a distinct advantage over his older
brother, and that this advantage would reflect itself in
many ways. For example, the teachers in school would
observe that he had no ears, and, because of this, they
would show him special attention and treat him with
extraordinary kindness.
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They always
did. His mother saw to that, by visiting the teachers and
arranging with them to give the child the extra attention
necessary. I sold him the idea, too, that when he became
old enough to sell newspapers, (his older brother had
already become a newspaper merchant), he would have a big
advantage over his brother, for the reason that people would
pay him extra money for his wares, because they could see
that he was a bright, industrious boy, despite the fact he
had no ears.
We could
notice that, gradually, the child's hearing was improving.
Moreover, he had not the slightest tendency to be
self-conscious, because of his affliction. When he was
about seven, he showed the first evidence that our method of
servicing his mind was bearing fruit. For several months he
begged for the privilege of selling newspapers, but his
mother would not give her consent. She was afraid that his
deafness made it unsafe for him to go on the street alone.
Finally, he
took matters in his own hands. One afternoon, when he was
left at home with the servants, he climbed through the
kitchen window, shinnied to the ground, and set out on his
own. He borrowed six cents in capital from the
neighborhood shoemaker, invested it in papers, sold out,
reinvested, and kept repeating until late in the evening.
After balancing his accounts, and paying back the six cents
he had borrowed from his banker, he had a net profit of
forty-two cents. When we got home that night, we found him
in bed asleep, with the money tightly clenched in his hand.
His mother opened his hand,
removed the coins, and cried. Of all things! Crying over
her son's first victory seemed so inappropriate. My
reaction was the reverse. I laughed heartily, for I knew
that my endeavor to plant in the child's mind an attitude of
faith in himself had been successful.
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His mother
saw, in his first business venture, a little deaf boy who
had gone out in the streets and risked his life to earn
money. I saw a brave, ambitious, self-reliant little
businessman whose stock in himself had been increased a
hundred percent, because he had gone into business on his
own initiative, and had won. The transaction pleased me,
because I knew that he had given evidence of a trait of
resourcefulness that would go with him all through life.
Later events proved this to be true. When his older brother
wanted something, he would lie down on the floor, kick his
feet in the air, cry for it-and get it. When the "little
deaf boy" wanted something, he would plan a way to earn the
money, then buy it for him self. He still follows that
plan!
Truly, my
own son has taught me that handicaps can be converted into
stepping stones on which one may climb toward some worthy
goal, unless they are accepted as obstacles, and used as
alibis.
The little
deaf boy went through the grades, high school, and college
without being able to hear his teachers, excepting when they
shouted loudly, at close range. He did not go to a school
for the deaf.
WE WOULD
NOT PERMIT HIM TO LEARN THE SIGN LANGUAGE.
We were determined that he should live a normal life, and
associate with normal children, and we stood by that
decision, although it cost us many heated debates with
school officials.
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While he was
in high school, he tried an electrical hearing aid, but it
was of no value to him; due, we believed, to a condition
that was disclosed when the child was six, by Dr. J. Gordon
Wilson, of Chicago, when he operated on one side of the
boy's head, and discovered that there was no sign of natural
hearing equipment.
During his
last week in college, (eighteen years after the operation),
something happened which marked the most important
turning-point of his life. Through what seemed to be mere
chance, he came into possession of another electrical
hearing device, which was sent to him on trial. He was
slow about testing it, due to his disappointment with a
similar device. Finally he picked the instrument up, and
more or less carelessly, placed it on his head, hooked up
the battery, and lo! as if by a stroke of magic, his
lifelong DESIRE FOR NORMAL HEARING BECAME A REALITY!
For the first time in his life he heard practically as well
as any person with normal hearing. "God moves in
mysterious ways, His wonders to perform."
Overjoyed
because of the Changed World, which had been brought to him
through his hearing device, he rushed to the telephone,
called his mother, and heard her voice perfectly. The next
day he plainly heard the voices of his professors in class,
for the first time in his life! Previously he could hear
them only when they shouted, at short range. He heard the
radio. He heard the talking pictures. For the first time
in his life, he could converse freely with other people,
without the necessity of their having to speak loudly.
Truly, he had come into possession of a Changed World.
We had refused to accept Nature's error, and, by PERSISTENT
DESIRE, we had induced Nature to correct that error, through
the only practical means available.
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DESIRE
had commenced to pay dividends, but the victory was not yet
complete. The boy still had to find a definite an practical
way to convert his handicap into an
equivalent asset.
Hardly
realizing the significance of what had already been
accomplished, but intoxicated with the joy of his newly
discovered world of sound, he wrote a letter to the
manufacturer of the hearing aid, enthusiastically describing
his experience. Something in his letter something perhaps
which was not written on the lines, but back of them caused
the company to invite him to New York. When he arrived, he
was escorted through the factory, and while talking with the
Chief Engineer, telling him about his changed world, a
hunch, an idea, or an inspiration all it what you
wish-flashed into his mind. It was this impulse of
thought which converted his affliction into an
asset, destined to pay dividends in both money and happiness
to thousands for all time to come.
The sum and
substance of that impulse of thought was this: It occurred
to him that he might be of help to the millions of deafened
people who go through life without the benefit of hearing
devices, if he could find a way to tell them the story of
his Changed World. Then and there, he reached a decision
to devote the remainder of his life to rendering useful
service to the hard of hearing.
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For an
entire month, he carried on an intensive
research, during which he analyzed the entire marketing
system of the manufacturer of the hearing device, and
created ways and means of communicating with the hard of
hearing all over the world for the purpose of sharing with
them his newly discovered "Changed World." When this was
done, he put in writing a two-year plan, based upon his
findings. When he presented the plan to the company, he
was instantly given a position, for the purpose of carrying
out his ambition.
Little did
he dream, when he went to work, that he was destined to
bring hope and practical relief to thousands of deafened
people who, without his help, would have been doomed forever
to deaf mutism.
Shortly
after he became associated with the manufacturer of his
hearing aid, he invited me to attend a class conducted by
his company, for the purpose of teaching deaf mutes to hear,
and to speak. I had never heard of such a form of
education, therefore I visited the class, skeptical but
hopeful that my time would not be entirely wasted. Here I
saw a demonstration which gave me a greatly enlarged vision
of what I had done to arouse and keep alive in my son's mind
the DESIRE for normal hearing. I saw deaf mutes
actually being taught to hear and to speak, through
application of the self-same principle I had used, more than
twenty years previously, in saving my son from deaf mutism.
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Thus,
through some strange turn of the Wheel of Fate, my son,
Blair, and I have been destined to aid in correcting deaf
mutism for those as yet unborn, because we are the only
living human beings, as far as I know, who have established
definitely the fact that deaf mutism can be corrected to the
extent of restoring to normal life those who suffer with
this affliction. It has been done for one; it will be done
for others.
There is no
doubt in my mind that Blair would have been a deaf mute all
his life, if his mother and I had not managed to shape his
mind as we did. The doctor who attended at his birth told
us, confidentially, the child might never hear or speak. A
few weeks ago, Dr. Irving Voorhees, a noted specialist on
such Cases, examined Blair very thoroughly. He was
astounded when he learned how well my son now hears, and
speaks, and said his examination indicated that
"theoretically, the boy should not be able to hear at all."
But the lad does hear, despite the fact that X-ray pictures
show there is no opening in the skull, whatsoever,
from where his ears should be to the brain.
When I
planted in his mind the DESIRE to hear and talk, and
live as a normal person, there went with that impulse some
strange influence which caused Nature to become bridge
builder, and span the gulf of silence between his brain and
the outer world, by some means which the keenest medical
specialists have not been able to interpret. It would be
sacrilege for me to even conjecture as to how Nature
performed this miracle. It would be unforgivable if I
neglected to tell the world as much as I know of the humble
part I assumed in the strange experience. It is my duty,
and a privilege to say I believe, and not without reason,
that nothing is impossible to the person who backs DESIRE
with enduring FAITH.
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Verily, a
BURNING DESIRE has devious ways of transmuting itself
into its physical equivalent. Blair DESIRED normal
hearing; now he has it! He was born with a handicap which
might easily have sent one with a less defined DESIRE to the
street with a bundle of pencils and a tin cup. That
handicap now promises to serve as the medium by which he
will render useful service to many millions of hard of
hearing, also, to give him useful employment at adequate
financial compensation the remainder of his life.
The little “white lies” I
planted in his mind when he was a child, by leading him
to BELIEVE his affliction would become a great asset,
which he could capitalize, has justified itself. Verily,
there is nothing, right or wrong, which BELIEF, plus
BURNING DESIRE, cannot make real. These qualities
are free to everyone.
In all my
experience in dealing with men and women who had personal
problems, I never handled a single case which more
definitely demonstrates the power of DESIRE. Authors
sometimes make the mistake of writing of subjects of which
they have but superficial, or very elementary knowledge. It
has been my good fortune to have had the privilege of
testing the soundness of the POWER OF DESIRE, through the
affliction Of my Own son. Perhaps it was providential that
the experience came as it did, for surely no one is better
prepared than he, to serve as an example of what happens
when DESIRE is put to the test.
If Mother Nature bends to the will of desire,
is it logical that mere men can defeat a burning desire?
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Strange and
imponderable is the power of the human mind! We do not
understand the method by which it uses every circumstance,
every individual, every physical thing within its reach, as
a means of transmuting DESIRE into its physical
counterpart. Perhaps science will uncover this secret.
I planted in
my son's mind the DESIRE to hear and to speak as any normal
person hears and speaks. That DESIRE has now become
a reality. I planted in his mind the DESIRE to
convert his greatest handicap into his greatest asset. That
DESIRE has been realized. The modus operandi by
which this astounding result was achieved is not hard to
describe. It consisted of three very definite facts; first,
I MIXED FAITH with the DESIRE for normal hearing,
which I passed on to my son. Second, I communicated my
desire to him in every conceivable way available, through
persistent, continuous effort, over a period of years.
Third, HE BELIEVED ME!
As this
chapter was being completed, news came of the death of
Mine. Schuman Heink. One short paragraph in the news
dispatch gives the clue to this unusual woman's stupendous
success as a singer. I quote the paragraph, because the
clue it contains is none other than DESIRE.
Early in her
career, Mine. Schurnan Heiiak visited the director of the
Vienna Court Opera, to have him test her voice. But, he did
not test it.
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After
taking one look at the awkward and poorly dressed girl, he
exclaimed, none too gently, “With such a face, and with no
personality at all, how can you ever expect to succeed in
opera? My good child, y a sewing machine, and go to give up
the idea. But work. YOU CAN NEVER BE A SINGER.
Never is a
long time! The director of the Vienna Court Opera knew much
about the technique of singing. He knew little about the
power of desire, when it assumes the proportion of an
obsession. If he had known more of that power, he would not
have made the mistake of condemning genius without giving
it an opportunity.
Several
years ago, one of my business associates became ill. He
became worse as time went on, and finally was taken to the
hospital for an operation. Just before he was wheeled into
the operating room, I took a look at him, and wondered how
anyone as thin and emaciated as he, could possibly go
through a major operation successfully. The doctor warned
me that there was little if any chance of my ever seeing him
alive again. But that was the DOCTOR'S OPINION. It was not
the opinion of the patient. Just before he was wheeled
away, he whispered feebly, "Do not be disturbed, Chief, 1
will be out of here in a few days." The attending nurse
looked at me with pity. But the patient did come through
safely. After it was all over, his physician said, "Nothing
but his own desire to live saved him. He never would have
pulled through if he had not refused to accept the
possibility of death."
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I believe in
the power of DESIRE backed by FAITH because I
have seen this power lift men from lowly beginnings to
places of power and wealth; I have seen it rob the grave of
its victims; I have seen it serve as the medium by which men
staged a comeback after having been defeated in a hundred
different ways; I have seen it provide my own son with a
normal, happy, successful life, despite Nature's having sent
him into the world without ears.
How can one
harness and use the power of DESIRE? This has been
answered through this, and the subsequent chapters of this
book. This message is going out to the world at the end of
the longest, and perhaps, the most devastating depression
America has ever known. It is reasonable to presume that
the message may come to the attention of many who have been
wounded by the depression, those who have lost their
fortunes, others who have lost their positions, and great
numbers who
Must
reorganize
their plans and stage a comeback. To all these I wish to
convey the thought that all achievement, no matter what may
be its nature, or its purpose, must begin with an intense,
BURNING DESIRE for something definite.
Through some
strange and powerful principle of “mental chemistry"
which she has never divulged, Nature wraps up in the impulse
of STRONG DESIRE "that something" which recognizes no such
word as impossible, and accepts no such reality as failure.
There is no
doubt in my mind that Blair would have been a deaf mute all
his life, if his mother and I had not managed to shape his
mind as we did. The doctor who attended at his birth told
us, confidentially, the child might never hear or speak. A
few weeks ago, Dr. Irving Voorhees, a noted specialist on
such Cases, examined Blair very thoroughly. He was
astounded when he learned how well my son now hears, and
speaks, and said his examination indicated that
"theoretically, the boy should not be able to hear at all."
But the lad does hear, despite the fact that X-ray pictures
show there is no opening in the skull, whatsoever,
from where his ears should be to the brain.
When I
planted in his mind the DESIRE to hear and talk, and
live as a normal person, there went with that impulse some
strange influence which caused Nature to become bridge
builder, and span the gulf of silence between his brain and
the outer world, by some means which the keenest medical
specialists have not been able to interpret. It would be
sacrilege for me to even conjecture as to how Nature
performed this miracle. It would be unforgivable if I
neglected to tell the world as much as I know of the humble
part I assumed in the strange experience. It is my duty,
and a privilege to say I believe, and not without reason,
that nothing is impossible to the person who backs DESIRE
with enduring FAITH.
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TOP
Verily, a
BURNING DESIRE has devious ways of transmuting itself
into its physical equivalent. Blair DESIRED normal
hearing; now he has it! He was born with a handicap which
might easily have sent one with a less defined DESIRE to the
street with a bundle of pencils and a tin cup. That
handicap now promises to serve as the medium by which he
will render useful service to many millions of hard of
hearing, also, to give him useful employment at adequate
financial compensation the remainder of his life.
The little “white lies” I
planted in his mind when he was a child, by leading him
to BELIEVE his affliction would become a great asset,
which he could capitalize, has justified itself. Verily,
there is nothing, right or wrong, which BELIEF, plus
BURNING DESIRE, cannot make real. These qualities
are free to everyone.
In all my
experience in dealing with men and women who had personal
problems, I never handled a single case which more
definitely demonstrates the power of DESIRE. Authors
sometimes make the mistake of writing of subjects of which
they have but superficial, or very elementary knowledge. It
has been my good fortune to have had the privilege of
testing the soundness of the POWER OF DESIRE, through the
affliction Of my Own son. Perhaps it was providential that
the experience came as it did, for surely no one is better
prepared than he, to serve as an example of what happens
when DESIRE is put to the test.
If Mother Nature bends to the will of desire,
is it logical that mere men can defeat a burning desire?
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TOP
Strange and
imponderable is the power of the human mind! We do not
understand the method by which it uses every circumstance,
every individual, every physical thing within its reach, as
a means of transmuting DESIRE into its physical
counterpart. Perhaps science will uncover this secret.
I planted in
my son's mind the DESIRE to hear and to speak as any normal
person hears and speaks. That DESIRE has now become
a reality. I planted in his mind the DESIRE to
convert his greatest handicap into his greatest asset. That
DESIRE has been realized. The modus operandi by
which this astounding result was achieved is not hard to
describe. It consisted of three very definite facts; first,
I MIXED FAITH with the DESIRE for normal hearing,
which I passed on to my son. Second, I communicated my
desire to him in every conceivable way available, through
persistent, continuous effort, over a period of years.
Third, HE BELIEVED ME!
As this
chapter was being completed, news came of the death of
Mine. Schuman Heink. One short paragraph in the news
dispatch gives the clue to this unusual woman's stupendous
success as a singer. I quote the paragraph, because the
clue it contains is none other than DESIRE.
Early in her
career, Mine. Schurnan Heiiak visited the director of the
Vienna Court Opera, to have him test her voice. But, he did
not test it.
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TOP
After
taking one look at the awkward and poorly dressed girl, he
exclaimed, none too gently, “With such a face, and with no
personality at all, how can you ever expect to succeed in
opera? My good child, y a sewing machine, and go to give up
the idea. But work. YOU CAN NEVER
BE A SINGER.
Never is a
long time! The director of the Vienna Court Opera knew much
about the technique of singing. He knew little about the
power of desire, when it assumes the proportion of an
obsession. If he had known more of that power, he would not
have made the mistake of condemning genius without giving
it an opportunity.
Several
years ago, one of my business associates became ill. He
became worse as time went on, and finally was taken to the
hospital for an operation. Just before he was wheeled into
the operating room, I took a look at him, and wondered how
anyone as thin and emaciated as he, could possibly go
through a major operation successfully. The doctor warned
me that there was little if any chance of my ever seeing him
alive again. But that was the DOCTOR'S OPINION. It was not
the opinion of the patient. Just before he was wheeled
away, he whispered feebly, "Do not be disturbed, Chief, 1
will be out of here in a few days." The attending nurse
looked at me with pity. But the patient did come through
safely. After it was all over, his physician said, "Nothing
but his own desire to live saved him. He never would have
pulled through if he had not refused to accept the
possibility of death."
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TOP
I believe in
the power of DESIRE backed by FAITH because I
have seen this power lift men from lowly beginnings to
places of power and wealth; I have seen it rob the grave of
its victims; I have seen it serve as the medium by which men
staged a comeback after having been defeated in a hundred
different ways; I have seen it provide my own son with a
normal, happy, successful life, despite Nature's having
sent him into the world without ears.
How can one
harness and use the power of DESIRE? This has been
answered through this, and the subsequent chapters of this
book. This message is going out to the world at the end of
the longest, and perhaps, the most devastating depression
America has ever known. It is reasonable to presume that
the message may come to the attention of many who have been
wounded by the depression, those who have lost their
fortunes, others who have lost their positions, and great
numbers who
Must
reorganize
their plans and stage a comeback. To all these I wish to
convey the thought that all achievement, no matter what may
be its nature, or its purpose, must begin with an intense,
BURNING DESIRE for something definite.
Through some
strange and powerful principle of “mental chemistry"
which she has never divulged, Nature wraps up in the impulse
of STRONG DESIRE "that something" which
recognizes no such word as impossible, and accepts no such
reality as failure.
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